Hey—been a bit quiet between us lately. Everything good?
Why it works: someone pulling away
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Hey—been a bit quiet between us lately. Everything good?
Why it works: someone pulling away
Haven’t heard from you much—just checking in.
Why it works: someone pulling away
Hey 🙂 you’ve been a bit quiet—everything okay?
Why it works: someone pulling away
Just popping in—haven’t heard from you in a bit.
Why it works: someone pulling away
Hey 🙂 just seeing how you’ve been.
Why it works: someone pulling away
You’ve been a little MIA—hope all’s good.
Why it works: someone pulling away
Hey, how’ve you been?
Why it works: someone pulling away
All good on your end?
Why it works: someone pulling away