A heads up would have gone a long way for me.
Why it works: Friendly feedback
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A heads up would have gone a long way for me.
Why it works: Friendly feedback
We can fix this, I just wanted to say how it felt.
Why it works: Friendly reassurance
Next time, just give me a heads up. That would help a lot.
Why it works: Friendly request
Can we reset this and try again?
Why it works: Friendly repair
We can do better than this next time.
Why it works: Friendly forward focus
Let us fix it going forward instead of dwelling on it.
Why it works: Friendly solution
Let us do better next time, yeah?
Why it works: Friendly forward focus
I just wanted to say it instead of letting it sit.
Why it works: Friendly honesty